Women, START RESPECTING MEN!

Women, START RESPECTING MEN!

There's a lot that's been said about the relationship between men and women in America. So much out there has been said, nobody knows just exactly is what. Now I know what I write here are merely my opinions, but maybe you should understand them, and realize that what I say just might make sense.

I read how the marriage rate among Americans has declined so significantly, there are now more single women than married women. Why is that so? Has things declined so much among today's generation that they don't believe getting married and having a family is of the utmost importance? Moreover, what would past generations of people say?

Let me say this strongly:
The number one prerogative of life among human beings is to seek someone of the opposite gender and raise children. It is not working at a successful job, it is not making tons of money, it is not finding the solutions for the world's ills. Every other living species on the planet has procreation as its number one goal in life. It used to be that way with American people too.

Where did it all go wrong?

Well, there are a number of reasons, but one key reason I'll mention here is feminism. Now, hold on, don't jump to conclusions! I know, most of you Americans like to jump to conclusions. There are numerous other reasons, but for now I want to lay out a few reasons why feminism has seriously damaged the mating and marriage habits of Americans.

There is one thing all heterosexual men seek in a woman. Femininity. Femininity does not mean any physical features one has, but what behaviors they display. One thing American women lack, is grace. You just don't see it here. You need to look up the word to know what I mean. Men do not want women who look and/or act like men. You see, feminists have sought to create an Apartheid-style society where men and women act and go their separate ways. To act and look almost the same, in every facet of life. It's been said feminist women wished they really were men, and I agree with that to some extent.

You remember Debrahlee Lorenzana? She was the financial company employee who looked, dressed, and acted like a woman should be. On top of that, she was a very capable employee at her firm. So what happened? She got fired, simply because the men at her work felt uncomfortable with her. Now, men in every country would laugh their asses off at what these American male bosses did to her. In every other industrialized place in the world, women who work in office jobs dress like that.

So why did she get fired? Simple. We have laws against "sexual harassment" that are so severe, these men were deathly afraid of anything that could happen as a result of her affection for sartorial beauty. And who came up with these laws against sexual harassment? Yep, the same feminists seeking to turn women into men. Ms. Lorenzana is different. She dresses the way she does, because she is a self-confident woman. And self-confident people help boost esteem in whatever surroundings they are in. Why wasn't she accepted for being a woman?

One problem you see in society today is the sloppy dress habits of Americans. One place where standards have deteriorated is the office. Too much casual, too much carelessness, too much obsession with "comfort". I remember that horrible time when office women would go to the office in tennis shoes. Ugh! It's easy to see why Ms. Lorenzana is being ostracized. Look at all the sloppy dress of people going to work at the office!

When I was in high school, it was a rule that student-athletes had to dress up the day of (or the day before, if it was on Saturday) a game. Cheerleaders dressed up in their uniforms for classes. The purpose was understandable, but in a high school of 900 students, that meant those jocks dressing up weren't "representing" their school, but rather looked badly out of place.

Nevertheless, it should've left an imprint on all of us in later life. Instead, you now see people going to church the same way they do to the grocery store! Sadly, most churches are openly encouraging this, on the guise that "God will accept you however you look". Problem is, Orthodox (and some Catholic) church officials are openly lamenting the lack of fashion decency in their churches.

Going back to the point, the one rule in life forgotten over time is, "dress to impress". That is true in all facets of life, but is especially true when we try to meet that special someone for a relationship.

And one thing, above all, that men love to see in women, is that they dress fabulous. Dress like women! Even if you're a bit obese, you can make that up by dressing classy; men appreciate the effort to dress up for the occasion.

One time, I went out to eat with a lady at a casual restaurant, facially cute, she wasn't "real thin" but still attractive and seemed friendly. She dressed up in ragged jeans and a frumpy sweater. Deep down, I felt by the way she displayed herself that it wasn't worth the effort. This has generally been the case with the women I've gone out, since then. So much so, I once asked a girl to dress up for the occasion, to the best she can, and I didn't really want to ask her to do it, but she didn't seem to mind.

Contrast that with one time, when I went out with a lady in another country. She asked me to come back in an hour to go out; when I returned, she was heavily dolled up, makeup, lipstick, good dress, all that. I couldn't believe it, but deep-down I sure loved it!

Now, all you women out there reading this, please take my advice. Men love women who look and act beautiful. That is the RULE in every other society. Men are always curious as to how women live and act. Why deny them the opportunity to let them see for themselves? Men are respectful towards women who respect them back. And one way to respect them is to understand their feelings, what they think, what they like. It's not perversion, it's the natural order of things!

I really want to hear your take. I created this blog mainly because it is impossible to ask anything at a dating site's forum. I won't get banned by explaining my opinion! And I'll continue to touch on this topic every now and then.