At a recent speed-dating event, most of the women told me they were frustrated with the men they talk to asking for sex right away. Now I had no reason to doubt them, but still, it seemed so odd that they claim this always seems to happen. After all, I've never asked a woman for sex, not on the first meeting, or second, or third.....
But if it really seems that nearly all men act like that, is that reason to reject them out of hand as a suitable partner? I mentioned that the number one purpose in life is to seek a partner and procreate. If you're turned off by all men who do this, well, where are your other options?
What I suggest is this:
If you meet a guy you seem to like, you get along great at first, but then he asks you sex, DON"T REJECT HIM! Ask him why he would say such a terrible thing. But be forgiving!
This society's notions towards sex has been just as awful on men, perhaps even worse, that on women. Men are not evil creatures! They are human beings doing what is the natural order of things. 100 years ago, men didn't go up to women asking for sex. They probably were more interested if the girl they met would be right for them for marriage and children. And they sure treated women with decency and respect. You know why? Because women 100 years ago had GRACE, and femininity. They weren't brainwashed with the notion they must work at a job to prove their worth.
Men don't like work either, but they understand that one needs to work in order to survive. Men today have no problem with women working, they just have a problem with them acting like men, as well as absconding from their God-given designated role in life.
You see, it's all about roles. Men and women have roles to play in the game in life. Roles change and morph from time to time, but people must understand there's a reason why we have two genders.
A woman's role in life is to be a woman, demonstrating lady-like traits, and to not rebel from their purpose in life. A man's role in life is to be a man, treating a woman like a lady, and to be supportive, encouraging, and strong.
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